Plainly a lot of the info on physique language focuses upon deciphering gestures and actions, within the hope that we will make an informed guess at what the opposite particular person is pondering and feeling.
In my earlier article on studying feminine physique language I defined that any gestures and actions are extremely subjective, each for the particular person and state of affairs.
So, I believed because the intent is to thoughts learn the opposite particular person i'm present you a way that doesn’t even contain gestures – however the individuals physiology as an entire.
One of many ideas of NLP is that our physiology expresses and impacts our state (feelings and emotions). Merely put, for those who maintain your physique in a depressed approach (head down, frowning and so on) you’ll really feel depressed, and so forth for different states.
So right here's the physique language secret – as a way to thoughts learn the opposite individuals feelings merely change your physiology to match their. Now, this isn’t all the time sensible so the method that’s simply as efficient (and right here's the actual secret) is to visualise your self, even for only a few seconds, holding your physique, transferring and having the identical facial expressions as they do.
I promise you'll have an important understanding of what different persons are experiencing than 99.9% of individuals on the market. Simply briefly picturing your self matching them will allow you to thoughts learn the opposite particular person, and more often than not the primary thought that happens whereas picturing matching them is the precise interpretation of their state, feelings and even ideas.
Attempt it out, I believe you'll be impressed with the outcomes. This device offers you the higher hand in any interplay.